Wedding : Tips to make the " Happily Ever After " reality

wedding - tips do make the   - Happily ever after  -  reality

Brazilian is marrying more . According to IBGE, in 2012 alone , there were over one million registered marriages ( an increase of 1 % compared to 2011 )
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In contrast , marriages are less durable . Research has shown that the Brazilian is married, on average , for 15 years - two years less than in the previous survey in 2007.

But on the day of "yes " , who even imagines that one day will be separated ?

Some say that the first years of marriage are easier , others , however, think that these are precisely the most complicated . The fact is that no matter the time : the two are a hard reality that all those who have said "yes " one day ( at the altar or not ) will face moments .

So how to make the promise of " happily ever after " reality? Here are some tips .

Put yourself in another's place This is a universal commandment , but it is vital with regards to marriage . Everything is easier when we try to understand the other's perspective and become less selfish and more flexible .

Remember the good times In the midst of a crisis , try to remember the time when you thought your spouse was the right person for you
. Remember the first date , first kiss . I bet that will start you with a smiling face. (Only applies not think it was all a lie ! But , yes , they could recover what was best in the relationship. )

Affection and respect , intimacy is not always synonymous with sloppiness .
 Many people end up leaving aside the " good manners " they had before the marriage. A good morning kiss , a " okay ? " On the phone , a " how was your day " evening , a respectful tone of voice and so on .

 If most couples to remain loving and careful with the words on the wedding day as it was at the beginning of dating , many remain together.

Wedding - sex is good and everyone enjoys the best of marriage is love ... and sex !

 Do not think your single friend makes you more sex , married . It is estimated that married people do 10 % more sex than single women. And the reason is simple : you have someone available under one roof !

Research aside, cultivate the sex is as important as cultivating love . One complements the other . So , have sex , talk about sex and get ready to have sex today if possible!

Share Selfishness is the great villain of marriage. The choice of life together is just that : a life lived for two people. That's because the person lives divides almost everything with you : food, costs , time, children , even to bed !

 We're not talking about losing the individuality (which is what makes one admire the other) , but leaving aside that bad feeling that insisting on making us think only of ourselves.


Perpetuate the "yes " Deciding to accept someone is always much more difficult to decide to accept someone for a day every day - and looks that we had the courage to say it in front of many people one day.

 So, how about waking up in the morning and decide to accept the person sleeping beside you in the next 24 hours as the day they joined her at the altar , treating her with love and admiration ?

Forgive and ask forgiveness This is what makes marriage endure and continue . If , on the one hand , it does well to remember what is good , on the other , hanging on to a bad time in the past only prevents us from being happy in the present .

 Do not let pride steal your joy and the other : practice forgiveness and see that you will be much happier !

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